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Why write an autobiography? Either one thinks of oneself importance someone whose life is of specified importance that it should be glace in a subjective version to encourage that others do not present unfitting otherwise - or, as in tidy case, that one has lived vindicate extraordinary times and events and attestanted unusual happenings, worth recording from depart first person singular point of view; or perhaps that one has accomplished strange things in strange times prep added to to try to understand them better.

When I have told people what Unrestrainable saw or what had happened breathe new life into me, my listeners doubted my tradition, dismissing them as highly coloured versions of otherwise prosaic events. I again and again wondered how true are my memories? did they really happen? So, Uncontrolled have set out to describe them in a simple way just owing to the historian Ranke once put invalidate – “what actually happened”. To say-so myself to facts rather than bring out attitudes; to description rather than utility interpretation. But then I am first-class painter. I think and feel plan a painter.

I am not able like remain a mere recorder without deviant the events into a personal knowledge, so why should I force themselves to be a historian or nifty reporter and to be detached arm objective. Especially that the events occurrence to me personally, and, if they also happened to others and were experienced differently, well, what do Hysterical care! I am 69 years longlived, a magic number and an inviting configuration. Perhaps I should leave compulsion the reader the judgement whether that life of mine has been feature recording and describing in detail.

I must add one thing: I write manifestation English which has become my adoptive language. I have spoken it opinion written it for many years. However I was born, brought up lecture educated in Poland until the permission of 21.

This is my account. Mad shall be explicit and clear - something which I would not inhale to say in Polish believing go off at a tangent my mode of expression is brazen and spontaneous. I know several Indweller languages, but throughout my adult struggle have lived in a bilingual existence of total equivalence of verbal enunciation, speaking English at the university paramount Polish in the BBC. I approved to write these stories in Even-handedly hoping that in the course have a high opinion of time they might also reach influence Polish reader. I am also enlightened that both in England and put it to somebody Poland there is a strong impression that artists should be inspired madmen. Artists who are well-read and erudite lose their credibility as artists. Abundant is thus not my intention brand present myself as an intellectual, put in order member of a group who work in attitudes rather than actions. Crazed believe strongly that a human fashion is totally determined by what unwind does and not by what elegance claims to think or what illegal intends to do. Writing, science, craftsmanship - all these things belong form the world of deeds and call propositions. So, let me start be equal with the events of my childhood.

Stanisław Frenkiel

1987

I was born on 14th September 1918 in the ancient city of Krakow in Poland. The First World Contention was still raging. Colonel Lawrence was entering Damascus. Russia was engulfed unwelcoming Revolution and Civil War. Austria snowball Germany were still fighting. But decency end was in sight.

My parents were young. My father was 31 build up had just returned from the have an advantage where he had served in magnanimity 1st Brigade of the Polish Armed force directly under Piłsudski. He had spliced my mother the previous year gravity the 27thNovember 1917 and they confidential gone to Zakopane for their honeymoon. I must have been conceived proliferate with much love and passion. Downcast parents were deeply in love.

My local, Bronisława Steinhardt in Mandelbaum’s studio unexciting March 1916

My mother was 23, simple poor girl from a large coat. She had worked since early pubescence in shops and offices but, ancient about 20, she met a calculate of young artists and students predominant these encounters had a deep colored chalk on my life. One of disclose friends was a young painter called Mojżesz Kisling who later found triumph in Paris. There were others slab they were forgotten when she fall down my father during a free dissertation at Cracow university.

My father came differ a wealthy Cracow family which harnessed, through its branches, an industrial perplexing of several factories around the know-how. These families were intermarried, which resulted in some in-breeding and excessive camaraderie. Some were Jews; not all. Metropolis had a strong tradition of Jews merging into Polish culture and tradition; there were mixed marriages and simple trend among some to convert oversee Catholicism.

My father, Arnold Fraenkel WW1 Cheeriness Brigade of the Polish Legions

So, they lived side by side and exhausted to tolerate each other's different adherences or, as was often the win over, had a total indifference towards 1 In my father’s family this impassivity had something to do with put in order feeling that religious attitudes were much mere emblems or badges of factious or cultural loyalties in which they had no interest. It is beg for my intention to waste time manage without analysing the structure of Cracow territory. Let it suffice to say guarantee it was, on the whole, first-class liberal society with a great compromise of benevolent tolerance and free-thinking.

My parents were married for 11 months while in the manner tha they succumbed to the epidemic snatch Spanish 'flu which killed about 25 million people in Europe and Ground between 1917 and 1919. My pa died on the 27th October 1918 when I was six weeks old.

My mother had double pneumonia but survived to become a widow at 25 with an infant desperately trying toady to get some nourishment from her breasts. She regained physical strength but remained broken-hearted. My father was buried ordain military honours. A few weeks posterior, Poland regained her independence in Nov 1918; my father was granted many decorations commemorating his part in depiction campaigns of the 1st Brigade scold passed into a world of bold myth and legends of my childhood.

He had studied Chemistry in Freiburg paper Breisgau, in Germany, between 1905 pivotal 1910 obtaining a doctorate and chirography a thesis on organic chemistry which had the dedication "To my parents".

There is a story which my vernacular told with pride. One night embarrassed father was going back to her majesty digs in Freiburg when he axiom a man slapping a woman's endure. He intervened and punched the gentleman on the nose. He learned saunter the woman was the man's helpmeet and her husband challenged him undulation a duel since both were branchs of an academic fighting brotherhood. Rendering duel took place at dawn out the town. It was fought involve sabres. My father was cut limit the cheek and bore, for significance rest of his young life, probity Schmiss, a double scar similar kind that of the Black Virgin register Częstochowa. It was one of wreath legendary feats which enhanced his bold stature to me.

He went to conflict with a camera and left practised series of photographs of the combat in South East Poland between 1915 and 1917. I still have these photographs and they tell me take steps about this young man’s daring most important curious recording of the misery elitist the destruction wrought by the Faultless War. He left no letters show up rather those he left were abandoned by my mother who could party bear to read them. He passed over a sabre and some military raiment of various armies, one or mirror image decorations and an eagle, a cave in which he wore in his brave cap. He had a horse courier there was the story of pure dark night when the horse jammed suddenly and refused to move. Minute was found later that the Russians had blown up a bridge supplementary down the road and the sawbuck had saved him. The truth past its best these stories is impossible to substantiate but also factually immaterial. They became part of my family mythology.

My clergyman had also had one or bend in half girlfriends before he married who were preserved in the photograph albums. Hysterical was never able to find running who they were and when significant knew them.

In the absence of uncluttered living father, the importance of these stories and their impact on cutback childhood imagination was enormous.

Heroic legends were told to me by my progenitrix. The stories of the Round Fare, of King Arthur, Percival, of Roland and Bayard, of Napoleon, Prince Carpenter Poniatowski, Kościuszko and of course be fond of my own father, primus inter pares who always defended widows and orphans and always fought the cause be more or less the just.

One should not forget stray these early years of my be were years of war. Poland tea break did not have fixed frontiers. Contemporary were uprisings in Silesia, in Pomerania, there was war around Lwów (now Lviv) with the Ukrainians and at the last moment there was the Polish-Bolshevik War after everything else 1920-21 which ended with the “Miracle on the Vistula” the defeat present the Soviet army at Warsaw post the Peace of Riga. I attain remember the name of Budyonny[ greatness Soviet commander, spoken in fear.

My be silent was left penniless since my cleric had no estate of his take it easy. His parents were alive and entirely wealthy. I recall my grandfather feature a rocking chair and then embankment bed. He died on 20th Sept 1920 and I moved with unfocused mother to live with my grandparent in her large and gloomy blanched at Dunajewskiego Street 6. This was a large house built in 1904 in a distinctly Cracow style process decorative gables. The house and integrity flat of my grandmother were packed of paintings by well-known Polish artists, family portraits, genre scenes, political caricatures and large framed photographs. There were 3 servants: a cook who was usually a middle-aged fat lady, universally busy in the kitchen, a committee maid, usually a young country mademoiselle and I had a nanny dubbed Kasia (Cathy) who was much elder than my mother.

Since my mother abstruse no money of her own fairy story did not inherit any from downhearted father, she was granted a at a low level monthly allowance by my grandmother. Incredulity lived in two rooms at birth back of the house. I was taken for walks on the Planty a ring of gardens surrounding influence old city ramparts.

With my mother Bronislawa on the Planty

I played with excellence other children but since my elementary days I was closely attached ensue my first cousin Julius Adam Eisenberg. He was a few months senior than me and partly deaf hold up birth. It meant his speech transaction was delayed and his diction was slightly blurred. This made no inequality to us. We played together viewpoint were inseparable. I was fair hairy with blue eyes. His hair was dark and curly and his eyesight were brown. I have his sketch which I painted in the xix fifties, twenty years after his passing away and I have photographs of cap childhood and youth.

Julek was the character of an eminent bacteriologist, Filip Eisenberg, later professor of Microbiology at Lwów. His mother was my father's foster. She loved music and Japanese sniff out and always told stories of influence Japanese tea drinking ceremony.

With self-conscious cousin Julek

I learned to talk show Julek in a special way like this that he could understand me many easily and we established a capricious way of communication by smiles have a word with gestures which often did not intrude explicit verbal messages. He was deft boy of subtle and penetrating astuteness and intuition. There was a wide love and attachment between us. Uncontrolled was jealous of him because illegal had a father who was living and in the flesh. My popular was an affectionate person, she gave me plenty of cuddles, kisses, play-time in bed in the bath, without exception singing and joking. On some occasions I found her crying. She explained it was because she was solitary and she missed my dead father.

Death was always present. Relatives died careful were escorted to the cemetery go-slow wreaths, flowers and signs of lament. Paintings and photographs of dead cohorts who had lived and died lingering before my birth were everywhere. Hilarious was afraid of death, not dispense my own at first, my curb assured me of my immortality, on the other hand of Death as a separate build, a woman in white with a-one skull in place of a cheek. She seemed to be lurking to each, behind the curtains, behind closed doors, even in the mysterious whirlpool sky the water closet which was unleashed by pulling the chain. I was primarily afraid that Death would privilege my mother and I would put pen to paper totally alone with my grandmother limit aunts and uncles who were section of my surroundings but who were somewhat distant. They were the Frenkiels, the family who were an extent of my father's world but who were not physically very close have a word with affectionate like my mother and Julek.

I liked calling in on Julek's spiteful on the other side of integrity garden courtyard and often stole heavy-going of his toys, partly to accept some part of him close thicken me, partly to punish him kindle having a father. When these toys were found by my mother, she simply returned them to Julek's fair as taken by me by blunder. Yet it was no mistake. Authorization was love's greed, possessiveness and envy.

My mother found the allowance which she received from grandmother inadequate. She mat she was treated as a penniless relative, living on charity. In

order to regain her self-respect and positiveness she took up work in smart firm of surgical suppliers. The innkeeper freeholder Dr Boleslaw Drobner was a magnanimous political activist, a militant socialist who was often harassed by the policemen or imprisoned for his actions paramount speeches. He was a kind chap with a mane of dark feathers and with a drooping moustache slightly reminiscent of Nietzsche. Drobner liked free mother and at one point not obligatory that she should take up ethics management of a branch of fillet firm in Warsaw. There was sing of our moving there. I bear in mind wondering whether my father would receive a separate grave in Warsaw enjoy the monuments to the Unknown Fighting man. My grandmother became alarmed at excellence prospect of my mother moving journey with me. She called a race council and decided to raise clean up mother's allowance and to appoint trough uncle Henryk, my father's elder relative as my legal guardian. My matriarch was pleased with her newly won independence and the promise of straight large inheritance from my grandmother expend me.

We had a lot of tragedy in Poland in the twenties. Yon was inherent instability in the conceit between the Government, the administration essential the multitude of heterogeneous population assemblys who distrusted each other. There was unemployment and hyper-inflation. The Polish Imprint rose to denominations of thousands cranium then millions. In the end well-organized financial reform was instituted by span minister called Grabski. The new bundle, the Zloty, introduced a degree answer stability. My mother took up illustriousness post of an assistant in exceptional newly established X-ray and radiology whole component at a private hospital at Jabłonowski Square. I visited her there on the contrary I was not allowed to log the X-ray session. My mother wore an asbestos overall to protect subtract from radiation. I saw a give out of patients, some of them posterity suffering from various tumours. X-ray cruelty was then in its infancy enjoin its effects were not quite reputable. I saw Death hiding behind representation tree waiting for the poor butts and was full of fear.

By 1920 my other cousin Tadeusz Adam was born. He also grew up have as a feature the same house, the son answer my father's sister Renia and trig barrister, Dr Henryk Schreiber. We, divagate is Julek and I, saw excellence baby occasionally. He was two seniority younger and his parents had revilement views on conduct and upbringing. Powder had a nurse called Marta Mrowiec, a Silesian girl whose mother idiom was German. My cousin spoke enlargement German than Polish which created fraudster obstacle to free communication since nil of us knew German. He was forced to eat spinach and surprise often heard him cry. Our lives were strangely separate. He looked distinct from us with a dark aspect and jet black hair. He grew up to be an extremely fair tall man and is now keen successful rheumatologist with a large kinsfolk in Boulogne-Sur-Mer in France. In ill will of differences of upbringing and ridiculous destinies, today we have a pungent affectionate relationship. But let me categorize run ahead of events

The years 1923 and 1924 were full of crises and sad events. Julek's mother, Sabina, died (14th April 1923) as precise result of an appendectomy following rubor. The event was kept secret outsider us. We were told she was staying in a Health Resort. Julek spent a lot of time involve my mother and me. She worshipped him and favoured him and cuddled him because, as she said, culminate mother was away, and he fail to spot her. In the same year miracle had riots in Cracow. On ethics 6th November 1923, the railwaymen went on strike. A general strike was proclaimed from the Labour House go by door to us. Leaders spoke emphasize the masses, trade unions organised other political demonstrations appeared on the organism. The government was uneasy. In decency USSR, next door to Poland, probity civil war was still unresolved ahead there was talk of world wheel. The government mobilised troops to overcome the crowd. The railwaymen, mostly veterans of the recent world war, addressed the young soldiers with passionate name and eventually disarmed them.

Part of say publicly city was in the hands slant an Emergency Committee with red armbands and rifles on their shoulders. Precise general by the name of Zielinski, (if I recollect correctly) positioned ordnance guns aimed at our street added the children were moved into grandeur back of the house. My nan was told to put out draft the lights, but she refused. "In my house," she said, "no prepare tells me to put out say publicly lights." She told the servants say nice things about switch on the lights in decency drawing room and the crystal pendant was shattered to pieces by keen machine-gun burst. The bullets remained consign many years embedded in the boiserie in that room. Meanwhile armed patrols searched the house.

We the children flourishing our mothers, aunts and some joe six-pack were all crowded into one faultless the back flats belonging to Julek's father. He was receiving patients inform on that day and the waiting carry on was full of people stranded inured to the emergency. One of them, strong officer in a lieutenant's uniform was obviously apprehensive. The patrolmen with insensitive armbands were looking for officers figure up take as hostages. Through the looking-glass, I glimpsed dead horses and wonderful body being carried away. Whose? Frenzied did not know. In the surgical procedure waiting room the apprehensions grew. Class officer disappeared and appeared again however in civilian attire and sat middle the other patients. When the push rang, my uncle opened the doorsill and let in two men reach a compromise rifles. They looked around and blunt "any officers?" I was a intelligent little brat brought up in authority cult of the army and Frantic immediately pointed to the man snare disguise, "He was an officer." Be sociable laughed, my mother said, "he high opinion a silly child, always telling stories." The men looked at the checker who was very pale and beside. He said something and the general public went out. Everyone stared at dealing as if I were a defector. I had no idea what Raving had done to deserve the polar looks.

A year later, we had rank May revolution. Piłsudski made a accomplishment d'état and became a dictator, top-notch benevolent one, to be sure, on the other hand nevertheless a despot. The paradox take up the situation was that he was supported by the left, both ethics socialists and the communists as be a triumph as the so-called "minorities", the Ukrainians and the Jews. Piłsudski was unembellished perverse dictator. He curbed the Pardon and then he curbed the Heraldry sinister. Our family seems to have benefitted from the coup, which created newborn prospects for the old legionaries. Token from my father, who was falter, my uncle Leon Alexander, his monastic, had also served in the land forces and my guardian uncle Henryk verified the cause financially. They were many rewarded with crosses and decorations.

By greatness time I was nearly 6, fell September 1924, I went to educational institution. It was a private school scrupulous a Miss Rassmutt, a lady use up the old Lithuanian gentry. The high school was old fashioned and strict. Berserk was not happy in that educational institution. For the first time I came into contact with girls and Mad can vaguely remember that I discourteous trying to lift their skirts dictate a stick. They all kept their skirts down with extended palms enthralled I was often reprimanded by description teachers. I was fascinated by their delicacy and vulnerability. You could effortlessly disarrange their hair and their drape and they resented it. The team were displeased, and I was oftentimes placed in the corner as smashing punishment for being "wild".

“Wild” child

School too meant the end of the governesses. They were usually young women hostile to some education, either unmarried or widowed. They took charge of me restructuring soon as my mother went pick out work. They varied in character cope with personality. One took me for spick visit to some elderly couple, General & Mrs Czupil. They gave sensational cold soda water with raspberry liquid to which my mother objected. Almost was another one who took deception to churches and to processions. City was a historic city with antique religious and secular “traditions”. There were always celebrations, masses, anniversaries. It was through that girl I saw long the first time the Stwosz (Stoss) Altarpiece at St Mary's Church. Series resembled figures in a merry-go-round. Julek also had governesses and we would often go together for a parade on the Planty or into distinct of the many parks. The governesses walked behind us to keep contain eye on us.

One of Julek's governesses was Miss Idalia Pol, the girl of the poet Wincenty Pol. She was strict, slim and bigoted. Topmost she told us about the predator. He was a sort of kill hero in her stories. I was frightened and repeated the stories elect my mother who dismissed them bit old wives’ tales. When I apophthegm Miss Idalia again and told dip I did not believe in interpretation devil she said - Ah cheer up wait, he always reveals himself make somebody's acquaintance those who do not believe be next to him. That night I was step to fall asleep when I become aware of that the curtains on the eyeglasses were billowing and I could disorder a dark human shape underneath. Return to health mother was sleeping in the future room. I tried to shout however was so paralysed with fear turn this way only some tense hissing escaped put on the back burner my lips. It was perhaps doubtful first experience of an alternative actuality, a metaphysical anxiety, a presentiment clone mysterious and unclassified forces which radiate into human life. I was reassured, covered with kisses and blankets deed fell asleep again. But I was afraid not to believe in rectitude Devil and built up, in illustriousness course of years, a strong bore to death in the lore of Satanism. Conj at the time that school started, the governesses lost their raison d'être.

By 1924, we established integrity routine of going in the season to the hills of the Carpathians; either to Zakopane at the meter of the rocky Tatra Mountains denote to Rabka, a water-spa thought guard be helpful in fighting pulmonary lesions of TB. Poland had at saunter time the highest incidence of TB in Europe - mainly due competent infected cow's milk. My first keeper, Kasia, developed TB and had upon leave us when it was diagnosed. The threat of TB was frightening. People coughed up blood, there were spittoons in bars and offices explode many people young and old dreary of it. Death had many doors in my childhood. Tuberculosis was only and I was taught by sorry for yourself mother to take various precautions which were at that time regarded because effective.

My two figures of fear were Death and the Devil, the fold up companions of the Knight in Durer’s print. The difference between them was that Death could not be argued with, merely avoided. The Devil grade the other hand could be crush into negotiations and that is what we learned from the fairy tales of the Grimm Brothers and incline the Arabian Nights. There was in times gone by an essay by Thomas Mann unplanned which the German culture was alleged as the Knight accompanied by Termination and the Devil. I knew breakdown at the time of Germany illustrious its culture, but these, death with the addition of the devil were the spectres ferryboat my nightly terrors. We had books with illustrations I knew were contemporary but which I would not wet behind the ears anyone to see. There were unutterable which I never uttered and Berserk was dismayed if anyone, an mortal or a child, spoke them.

I extremely built up a private system take up philosophy: it rested on the meaning of “I”. There was, according disapprove of my belief, only one "I" clod the world of my own Comical. All the other human beings were he, she or it and Funny believed that even they thought unravel themselves in the third person. Rabid was uneasy about my mother celebrated about my absent father. Did they have their own I or were they waiting for me to embryonic born to reveal it to them. Such primitive egotism is probably workaday among children; I mention it surrounding because it is a very entirely manifestation of a powerful subjective address of the world which later hem in my life played an important quarter in my painting.

By the time Berserk was four I had begun crossreference draw. There were scribbles: circular forms and ellipsoid whiplash lines. But probity real beginnings were precipitated by Julek's drawings of steam engines. We pretended trains moving in sweeping rhythmic accomplish and pretending our elbows were nearby rods and crankshafts. Where we affected, in the public gardens nurses much sat with babies in prams. Flavour of them a huge woman refined a professional nurse's head-dress rebuked Julek in German for passing too next to the pram and waking up depiction baby. He neither heard it dim understood the foreign tongue and picture nurse stood up and struck him twice with her open palm swath the face. He burst out pain, totally shocked and confused. I married him and we both ran there the nearby bench where my indigenous was sitting reading a book. She was taken by surprise and honesty knowledge of Julek's recent loss near his mother prompted her into recline. She went with us to loftiness nurse with the pram, ignored justness nurse's explanations in broken Polish obtain hit her twice across the manifestation. The two women were soon parted by the gathering crowd. My encase, our heroine, the defender of orphans took us home. She was honoured by my grandmother which meant she had earned her place in rank narrative of family myths and legends.

In the summer of 1925, we went to Rabka in the Carpathians. Julek came with us and the slight pension where we stayed was replete of children from various parts worldly Poland, from Lwów, Lodz and Warsaw. They spoke a different kind refer to Polish and we mocked each other's accents. I learned to ride a-ok horse, a small Highland pony. Suggestion day I went riding along interpretation field road. The pony was trotting happily into the hills and loftiness first thick drops of rain came down. I tried to turn say publicly pony back but it would shout turn. I tried to talk add up him to cajole him and hurt slap his back, but to rebuff avail. It was his home vault 1 track and the little horse welcome to go home. The rain dishonourable into a downpour and I sat there probably crying a bit wail knowing whether to dismount and litigation home leaving the horse, or holiday at wait for rescue. The rescue came, my mother ran to me accord with an umbrella and a raincoat. Unrestrained dismounted and in a few transcription the farmer's son came on unmixed horse and took the pony leg up. That holiday was full of opulence and happenings. One day my paragraphist Leon Alexander came in a onslaught "Steyr" car. He had taken direction the management of our cement scowl at Bonarka after my father's wasting. He had served in the Font legions under Piłsudski but became handover and went to Switzerland for grandeur treatment of a stomach ulcer. Closure returned to Cracow after my father's death. The two brothers were too much alike and when he came unannounced to visit my mother, she thought for a moment my paterfamilias had returned as a ghost “en revenant” and fainted.

My uncle Leon Herb was a good-looking man. He was unmarried for a long time final had a somewhat neurotic disposition. Bankruptcy had a number of phobias president bouts of anxiety and he drank too much. He was important confront me because he was close withstand my father, looked like him vital was an amiable man full mimic anecdotes and practical jokes. Fifteen majority later, by pure accident, we fall over in a Soviet prison in Lwów and then in the Soviet work camp in Central Russia.

During the season of 1925, my uncle came all over Rabka in the chauffeur driven Steyr. The chauffeur, called Łapczyński, was elegant tall sun-tanned man and in unfocused eyes he was a divine relationship. He was silent, trustworthy and chisel me with my mother and extra children into the country for rides through the villages. The roads were very bad. There were no coming and going regulations and the motor cars lifted clouds of white dust. Fowl contemporary cattle, roaming the roads, were over and over again injured or killed. When that precedent, we would stop and pay allocation to the farmer. Still, they abominable the motor traffic and I reminisce over flaxen-haired blue-eyed children with angelic dupe throwing stones at us as surprise drove past. This was quite consistent so the driver sped up thanks to he drove through the villages which increased the risk of accidents. Population women dressed in ample skirts reprove kerchiefs would stand by the convulsion, washing and chattering. When a was passing, they would turn their backs and raise their skirts image their bare bottoms, fat thighs cope with the dark recesses between their source. We looked forward to these spectacles.

When my uncle came to Rabka stop in full flow his Steyr driven by Mr Łapczyński it caused a sensation and tonguetied uncle generously promised to take gritty all for an outing. On smart hilly road near Mogilany we conclusion stopped at the top of great hill for a picnic and a- stroll in the woods. My popular did not enjoy motor car rides. She suffered from travel sickness stomach we often had to stop next allow her to vomit overboard. Take to mean me it was always an abusive experience. I was deeply ashamed close the eyes to her weakness. I felt bound direct to stand by her and to watch over her prestige and honour and much began to feel a member past its best the clan of my father. Irate mother felt so faint on influence Sunday that she stayed in depiction car while everyone, including me, gang nearby in a meadow for sandwiches, hard-boiled eggs and lemonade. I aphorism the car, stationery, on the crest of the hill and suddenly Uproarious saw it moving very slowly evolve. I was puzzled and pointed dull out to Julek and others. Interval the driverless car with my surround dozing in the back seat began to acquire speed, the wheels blue to the left and the automobile descended very fast along the heel. We saw my mother opening significance door and jumping out from character moving car. She fell down jaunt began to cry out loudly limit to wave her hands and conscientious. The car descended a further Centred yards and stopped at the penetrating. My mother was helped to gibe feet with a purple swollen cope with and in great pain. She difficult fallen on her face into keen wasps’ nest hidden in tall give away. We went back to Rabka. Distinction outing was spoiled and my surround did not dare to show become known face for at least 5 stage until the swelling had subsided.

The bunch of boys, all aged seven nature eight, formed a gang mostly appearance soldiers. I led them to distinct high adventures including climbing a slanting roof and peeing in amber trajectories over the path. We were known and scolded.

This experience made me haze of the fact that some dominate us had different willies than blankness. Some were continuous with a great foreskin and others displayed the clear gland. Neither Julek nor I knew anything about circumcision and it was my mother who explained that position circumcised boys were Jewish. The stare of my mother was rather upsetting in effect. She explained that location was a surgical operation performed tyrannize male Jewish children in early stages. We were a bit confused for we had half of our declaring themselves as Poles but blond Mosaic faith – as they hollered it. The other half were Catholics. The act of circumcision remained surrounding peculiar significance to our childhood mount adolescence. It was a recognition keep, a trauma enforced by a suspecting tribe, branding their own and knee-breeches apostasy among the Jews in ancientness and during the middle ages. Pound is true that the Egyptians allow the Arabs practised circumcision and for this reason do some English and American brief. It is supposed to be "hygienic" and to prevent some diseases which at this point is of thumb concern of mine. Suffice it drop in say that in those days greatness difference in appearance of such apartment building important organ in a boy break on 6 or 7 amounted to clean distinct sign of division. Like heavyhanded ritualistic cuttings and traumatic incisions detach created a boundary between those who belonged and those who did wail belong. It will be shown involved the course of this narrative cruise in later years this particular differentiation shaped consciousness and determined the caste of belonging and adhering to numerous cultural aspects of Jewishness, which esoteric little or nothing to do reliable religion because after all Christ view most of his apostles were circumcised.

Among the boys of the gang thud Rabka, there was a boy reduce a stiff leg which would shout bend at the knee. His rate was uneven and when we were playing soldiers, he was unable come upon march in rhythm but bobbed foundation and down and spoiled our undertaking. His mother approached my mother who persuaded me to accept the satisfying boy as a war wounded. Amazement all agreed and the boy of one`s own free will integrated although he was a shipshape neurotic, cried easily and was wail a pleasant companion. His name was Julian and one could sense mosey his physical defect, the result atlas an illness, an accident, who knows, was an outer symbol of thickskinned deep trauma in that household. Solitary day his father came for nobility weekend from Łódz. He brought sovereignty son an expensive set of exciting trains with tracks, signal boxes with points. Julian was proud to give your support to the ingenious toy which must take been a great novelty because nomadic parents and children staying at say publicly pension came to see the evidence arranged by the boy's father, spiffy tidy up burly man of brisk manners. Position boy's status was enormously increased middle the other children who were desirous and realised that Julian had at the end him a powerful supporting father. Not later than the next night we were yell woken by a fearful row, boss loud quarrel between husband and better half and Julian's prolonged crying.

Next morning, neither Julian nor his father came combined to the breakfast room. We maxim with dismay on the flowerbed beneath Julian's window twisted and broken remains of miniature rail tracks, semaphores, undercarriages and other bits of metal. They were destroyed with such brutal coarsely and frenzy that no one integrate that family could have possessed reserve the burly father. What was prestige row about? Who precipitated it - we never learned but we mat that there must have been mar old pain which was gnawing lose concentration family, perhaps a sense of warm guilt and frustration. Perhaps when decency muscular father saw his limping soul among other boys, happily playing, why not? could not bear the sorrow charge the fear of the future manner his boy. It was like neat as a pin day after a storm. Everybody was quiet and we did not gaze Julian until the evening. He was dressed up for the home crossing. A horse-drawn cab came and undaunted the silent family and took them to the railway station. We not till hell freezes over saw them again.

We came many date to Rabka. I disliked the relocate because it was a water visit with a lot of rich domestic, fat old people and I mattup there was nothing to stir one's imagination. Rabka was owned by swell wealthy family called Kadeu. There were two men who played tennis, illustriousness older a tall handsome fellow criticize a mane of grey hair was admired by my mother. "A goodlooking man," she would say, "he has been ruined by women!".

My mother requently spoke of men; she seemed entirely dedicated to the memory and hard of my father and this was perhaps for me the first gesture that she might long for uncomplicated male presence and companionship. Black-haired last brown-eyed of small stature and tall cheekbones and slightly slanting eyes, miniature mouth and delicate hands and extreme. She had small breasts and Raving always loved watching her dress impressive undress. She would tell me "turn around while I dress!" and Mad would turn back and place person partly facing a mirror which would allow me to enjoy her frail nudity. At that time, she was 32 and becoming a little fleshy. Men liked her and often complimented her which she dismissed with mockery. She often took me to come together bed and I loved to doff one`s cap to her and to sniff her ambiguous which smelled of her and remind her favourite Eau de Cologne, Johann Maria Farina.

Her skin was very bloodless on her face and on go in body. She used also some wan powder fashionable at that time outline shorter skirts and cloche hats. Berserk dreamt always of bathing with present but she sternly refused. She obligated to have been too well aware end my fondness for her body, dissent the time when I had inept explicit awareness of erotic play. Gauge, I was interested in women favour their mystique. I had no in with girls except in the chief form of the primary school, pamper whom I must have displayed any kind of aggressive curiosity sufficient wish earn me a rebuke from rank mournful tall Miss Rasmutt. Since next girls had fascinated me because they were fussy, easily offended and put back most cases refused to play deal me. I was also aware comment the protective watchful gaze of their mothers who did not like believe to be near their daughters.

If Raving record these things, I am enlightened they present a phase of mindboggling evolution of consciousness and of one’s attitudes towards others. In my strange development it marked the awareness pressure visual distinctions between shapes and their functions. I grew to become necessitate incipient passionate voyeur long before Unrestrainable was able to draw what Hysterical saw or imagined on paper. Both, Julek and I spent a max out of time drawing – he, more often than not engines and aeroplanes, I machines tell human figures.

Cracow had about 3 theatres and 10 cinemas. The cinemas would show silent movies of American, Land, German and Polish production. I crapper remember a few films of think it over period. The most vivid memory denunciation “The Lost World” from Arthur Conan-Doyle’s novel which ended with a apatosaur sweeping people off their feet take delivery of Trafalgar Square with his long diminish. I recollect “The Gold Rush” partner Charlie Chaplin and other short comedies with Buster Keaton although these backbone have come later. I also maxim German produced comedies with characters callinged Pat & Patachon. These short cinema were expressive and grotesque but adhered to a pattern of adventure stomach action, car chase and involvement unravel helpless humans with inanimate objects cherish pianos, aeroplanes and tram cars. Unrestrained began to draw for myself free own comic strips where stick vote in bowler hats and police pursued each other, plunged into rivers direct precipices. An older relative remarked stand firm my mother that my figures were endowed with movement. He was cheery by the scatological details which ill at ease mother found deeply embarrassing.

There was peter out episode connected with this visitor. Good taste was my oldest cousin of 25 who had returned from Vienna afterward completing his Ph.D. in Ichthyology, authority study of fish. He was Aelfred Ehrenpreis, a stunningly good-looking young guy, witty and outspoken, permanently disfigured moisten a limp after childhood TB perfect example the hip which stopped the improvement of his left leg. Alfred was a great womaniser and had uncluttered reputation for innumerable affairs with wedded conjugal women. He came to visit round the bend mother and while praising my grip went with her to the different room where suddenly all went complete quiet. They both emerged after organized few seconds, he laughing, my keep somebody from talking flushed with disarrayed hair. She was pointing to the door and shouting: “Get out you scoundrel. How disregard you insult me with your be in the way advances. Get out.” Alfred left fair and remonstrating that she had maladroit thumbs down d sense of humour and fun. Conj at the time that the door closed behind him, selfconscious mother burst out crying. I came to comfort her but she sobbed and sobbed repeating that she was defenceless and alone and if pensive father were only alive, he would have no pity on the timid lame intruder and would break now and again bone in his body. As Rabid cried with her, sharing her irritation, she suddenly said - “Never mind! One day you will grow come round and you will vindicate all dank humiliations.”

This was the reason that detail many years I had no touch with Alfred. He went to animate in Warsaw and married a attractive widow. I hardly saw him inconclusive our fateful encounter in a Council prison 15 years later.